Jizelle, if you took a moment to read the further posts you would have seen that Crow did apologize and explained why he said what he said. There is also no reason for you to become rude and abusive to a member, especially in a first posting, at least first post that shows here.
If the couple was using the site to "try to find excitement" then it would very much be his business as he is a moderator and this site is not for finding "excitement". This site is for exploring and learning about Polyamory, not to find flings.
Plus I find it interesting that you are posting a flame on a topic that is over a month old.
Life is about the journey and not the destination,
so what better way to know life
than to wander all the roads and paths set before you.