sex can be tricky and really can move people beyond the energy that once was there before it. I am forever changed when I have sex with people, which is why I don't have sex unless I am certain that it is the right choice and in knowing that things will likely change afterwards for me.. sure enough they always do. At least so far in my life and I haven't known that to look like it will budge from that... never know.
Time my friend, give it some time to settle in and see how the dynamic changes. It might be temporary or it might be the end of your triad and turn into a vee, or end entirely... you never know, but all one can do really is wait and take each step as it comes... keep talking too.
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