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Old 12-12-2010, 10:28 AM
FitChick FitChick is offline
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It seenms to me that B needs to work on his own issues,that aside from the poly stuff,there are other things going on,fear of abandonment etc,that maybe he needs to talk to someone,other than you about.
Something I have learnt to do is when my bf is with his ex wife,or ex gf and their respective children,(we have a boundary of no texting during this time),is send him an email articulating my thoughts(sometimes its more than one) that he can read and respond to later,that way he knows how I've been feeling without interrupting his allocated time with the other important people in his life. It took some time to negotiate this but it has got to the point where it is working well,and is keeping everybody calm..
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