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Old 12-12-2010, 10:14 AM
FitChick FitChick is offline
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Join Date: Dec 2009
Location: New Zealand
Posts: 100

I'm sorry you're having such a rough time. My bf's last relationship ended because his mono gf could not get her head around the concept of being poly,she terrorized me(as his new gf) and his secondary and in the end he walked away from her. Maybe you are fighting a losing battle,you both deserve to be happy and if he is truly mono and can't bear to share you with anyone else,then you may need to go your separate ways. I just see a whole lot of red flags,the first one being him giving his 'permission' for you to see other people,are you truly happy to let him control that aspect of you? If it's going to make you both miserable,why bother? Can you really see either of you making the significant emotional and intellectual adjustments required to keep your relationship alive?
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