Originally Posted by Derbylicious
(so much for peace and joy and love huh?)
It's still a goal for your relationship(s) right
Relationships take work, and trust takes even more. Bumps in the road should be expected. Intra-relationship discretion is something at the forefront of my thoughts right now too, and your post is an example of that.
I have been doing a lot of consideration of what it means and how to truly navigate what is being discreet or secretive vs giving out to much information. It is so personal to each person that a single answer just can't work. Relying on your spouse to know what should be private between you and him is a tough balance. You would hope a spouse would know what should be "private" but it just doesn't happen that way. My lovers and I have had discussions about what is open for discussion and what isn't. It never quite covers a large enough scope.
Sorry no real sage advice. But I can understand and relate