I know NY has so many poly events. I want to go check them out. But I am so shy to just go walk on in. Any friendly New Yorkers out there who would hold a newbies hand so to speak? My friend offered but she does the BDSM events which is very not me. And the other is taking a break from all relationships to deal with being a new mom. Oh-and AFTER I have this baby end of October. I feel really funny entering the community as a pregnant woman.
I'd rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I am not.