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Old 12-10-2010, 07:20 AM
FitChick FitChick is offline
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I'm the girlfriend of a poly man who just had a baby with his ex 5 months ago,and truthfully it has been VERY hard. you have to be strong and independent and make the most of what time you get with him. He will feel stressed and stretched as he will undoubtedly be working as well and he won't be able to make any time commitment to you for a while. I've had scheduled calls and breaks cancelled and I've had to learn to not take it personally. You have to remember that this is his bonding time with his son/daughter and he will need alot of that.
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