Yes, it was. I can see why you were hurt.
But, wasn't there sexual interest and tension all along? I mean, you 2 were hoping to have sex as soon as you got the green light from David... and now that you do, yr SO is all, fugedaboudit? Weird.
Very disappointing and hurtful.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags (poly, F, 60) loving miss pixi (poly, F, 38) since January 2009, living together since 2013
also loving Punk (monogamish, former swinger, 42, M) since Oct 2015
"Master," (mono, 34), miss pixi's Dom for 2 years