Originally Posted by NeonKaos
Mags, everything you just said I was also wondering.
However, I assumed from the tone of the OP's posts that she and her husband had already considered all that and decided not to proceed along those lines.
Well, it seems up in the air with this idea of just "having fun in the moment and not making any plans." I don't get the feeling Seekinganswer is comfortable with that.
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Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
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I'm a 58 year old woman with 2 partners:
miss pixi, my live-in gf, 36 (together since Jan '09)
Ginger, bf, 61, married, lives nearby (together since Jan '12)