Originally Posted by Ariakas;55369=
...4 weeks my love, I will make sure I remember this one
I knew you`d be all excited for your strap .
To the OP : Everyone gets their knickers in a knot, over various things. Your questions were valid ones, that many males feel. Being a valid question, does not mean that its a correct train of thought. Ariakas was just a good example of this.
Just because he cheekily typed; 'SourGirlSubmissive' doesn`t make it true.
People who have 'been there done that' are probably going to be more blunt, instead of hand-holding and coddling negative thinking.
That`s a good thing.
The old saying 'Life is what you make of it' tends to be very true, in these kind of situations.
I think Neon Khaos hit on something. You were probably more 'musing' outloud/in type,...It would of belonged in the blog section then.
Lesson learned, no harm no foul... if you choose to see the bright side.