Originally Posted by Ariakas
For all you guys complaining about not being able to pick up poly women, here is a pretty good tip, and I am sure the girls would agree.
Stop complaining about not being able to find women. Right up there with lack of confidence is when men complain about other men getting more action then them. You do realize you are immediately subjugating yourself to them? At least thats my take on it.
This comment hurt the OP? I agree it comes across as a bit harsh, but I put it down to Ariakis being a "Dominant" and therefore having a different take on so-called proper masculine behavior than others might have. For the record, I say, complain all you want about not finding the right girl yet! I complain all the time about not having found Mr Right!
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 58, living with:
miss pixi, 37, who is dating (NRE):