Originally Posted by Tonberry
2) Treat each partner as their own person, each relationship as its own relationship. Be wary of treating them "the same" out of fairness, they are different people and most likely want and need to be treated in a unique way.
3)......Make sure you have the same goals and know everyone's boundaries. In monogamous relationships many things are just assumed, which is bad for monogamous relationships too but has the potential to really backfire in poly ones. So make sure to know where everyone stands.
If YOU had to sum up everything in three bullet points, what would they be?
really good points to add!
did I not already sum up
.... with many bullet points?