You're 42? I'm 18. A lot of people on here are just very truthful, no matter how harsh it might sound. Life doesn't hold back on the worst bits, why should we? Take advice and do with it as you will, but everyone on this site are just helping the way they feel they can help. Don't take it personally.
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