Originally Posted by Ariakas
Thats the type of thing that comes from time. Go this time, follow SG's advice and keep him in contact. Don't let NRE completely envelop you and forget about the hubby. This is one of those times where you need to build that trust from scrtach. Go, have fun, come home
that's what I want to do and I plan to call him every few hours (except sleep time) J. also has to learn that my time with him is only when B is doing other things and B still has contact with me....
but watching my DH hurt so badly is like a knife in my heart.
BTW, I might have to add that both of us had gastric bypass a little over a year ago. I'm at goal and he still has weight to lose and this is probably NOT helping his insecurity....