I need ADVICE on telling hubby I'm going to see the new guy...UPDATED at bottom
HI all.... well my life continues to be up and down... and interesting...
Here's the latest...
my husband asked me last night if I minded if he went on an overnight trip with our friend C. I don't mind him going with C and told him to go and have a good time. So they are leaving Friday after work (around 6 or 6:30 PM)
C would love to have a more physical relationship with my hubby but he's not really interested. They are very close friends however. In a way I hope it does get physical for them Friday night.
So I sent J an email letting him know I was free on Friday night and if he was not busy maybe we could get together... I fully expected him to be busy.
SURPRISE! He's free. So now I am going to drive up to see J.
This will be our first alone time. AND our first meeting since I brought the idea of my having a relationship with J to my husband.
Husband is a bit jealous. and a bit concerned. and has NO idea that I asked J if he wanted to see me Friday. I have to tell him. I fear a bad reaction.
J and I do not have final plans yet...
I wonder if I should wait to tell hubby when the plans are final
or if I should mention to him I'm going to see J. but we don't know what we are doing yet....
the possibility exists that I will spend the night up there... but I don't know and may not know until that actually happens.
i Probably have left some important points out but that's what I can think of right now....
Last edited by whatamIdoing; 12-08-2010 at 10:40 PM.
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