Originally Posted by Ariakas
Meh, this is a tossup. How to etc. I don't treat being poly any different than being single. I interact, socialize and get to know women. As I meet them I am either interested or not. They are either interested or not. I surround myself on forums and in public with poly women. In the end, the best way to find a women who is interested is....drum roll....be yourself. People can detect any fakeness or game, especially if a man is trying to get into a relationship with them (for sex or a relationship)
What is true poly anyways. We all have different opinions on exactly what it means to us.
+1 Be yourself. I find it so much easier to be myself too. I don't understand how people can try be someone else to try get what they want and then complain when they get caught out. Just be the person you really are. Life becomes that little bit easier.