Originally Posted by clairegoad
I flirt constantly.. and have a hard time telling the difference between playful flirting and serious flirting.
I have always been a big flirt myself, too. But in a non-poly setting like I am used to, I generally know the rules of the game. Since many people in the room had a mix of preferences, and I knew these two guys were experienced in the poly arena, I wasn't sure what was going on. I've never had guys who seem rather gay flirting with me the way these guys did, which seemed more than playful. I'm not attracted to bisexual or effeminate men, so I never find myself in such situations and thought it was confusing.