I flirt constantly.. and have a hard time telling the difference between playful flirting and serious flirting.
When I first meet someone I assume they are just playful flirting... only after seeing them several times at various meetings do I consider them serious.
I love going to poly meetings... Generally I try to sit between two groups/tribes so I can listen to both conversations. I was nervous about going to the first meeting.. but since then.. it's become my home. (and I'm hoping you'll be feeling the same way soon)
Yep, the flirting is a huge boost to my ego... so I just enjoy it...