Originally Posted by Vexxed
Mono, you are right to an extent. Part of the reason that I want to know is to estimate how I measure up. I don't want to compete though.
You really should let that go of my friend. You don't "measure up" to each other; you are individuals who bring independent experiences to the people you love both emotionally and sexually.
If your partner doesn't desire you anymore then you should ask questions. Otherwise just be you and let her enjoy that...and you should too