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Old 12-06-2010, 10:41 PM
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Originally Posted by Fayerweather View Post
Thanks for the advise. This sounds like a good idea. Bite the bullet and just put myself into the uncomfortable feelings. That's always been the way I know I should handle emotional stuff, just sometimes I shy away from it's uncomfortable. Thanks again
Glad to be of help. I also would like to add that the fears you have are not a sign of immaturity, nor something you should already be "over." They are simply your feelings. Be kind to yourself and acknowledge your strength and maturity for taking such a close look at your inner life and wanting to deal with the discomfort. Many people never get to that point, and they live their lives in a rather stagnant state. So, good for you!
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