Originally Posted by Seekinganswer
Still on the safety matter (HIV/AIDS)as mentioned in previous post, this option would be suicidal.
I have to disagree on this point, Seeking. It is possible to establish safe and stable poly relationships between healthy adults.
As for unethical doctors forging clean reports, I would think that one way to solve that problem is for all partners to reach agreement as to which doctors to trust, and all partners to go to those doctors for testing. Another possible solution would be for several partners to go together for testing, and arrange that no partner would ever be alone with the doctor or staff, thus precluding the possibility of under-the-table shenanigans. Neither approach demonstrates much trust in the partners or doctors involved, but in situations where you have reason to doubt the veracity of medical records, a little paranoia could save lives.