Originally Posted by Erin
It is easier to remain in an unhappy, verbally abusive, monagomous relationship and tolerate lonliness, isolation, abstinence, and despair than to take the big risk and face homelessness, bancruptcy, and familial embarassment. Wouldnt you agree?
Not for me it isn't.
this isn't a poly issue, this sounds like a crappy relationship issue. If THATS your relationship, you need to start working towards your own happiness. Monogamous people don't suffer through those feelings for long. Thats what divorce is around for. Poly or not, you need to figure out what this relationship means you have to suffer through.