Carl, I don't mind feel free to mention anything that clicks with you in my posts. You are right there was some deceit and betrayal at the beginning of my situation too. I was so angry and hurt I almost went insane the first few days. My wife actually ran away those two days after I found out, she was afraid. I spent two days walking around trying to find the other guy to kill him. I don't remember much it was just a red haze. I don't like to think about all that now.
"The secret of life, though, is to fall seven times but to get up eight times"