Originally Posted by Danny40179
I agree totally. But why is it an audition? It's a conversation much like you have when you're talking to someone new. "Hi, I'm Danny and my wife and I are looking for someone to bring into our marriage." vs "Hi, my name is Neon and I'm looking to add someone into my life." Only difference I see there is "our" and "my".
Fact is that ANY relationship starts out as an audition, no?
That is not a fact. I don't conduct my relationships that way. Although there have been times when I've felt as though I was being auditioned by someone else, and I didn't like it much. Obviously, there are people who do that, such as yourself. I would ask that you not assume everyone else goes about it the same way you do.