Thread: Jealousy
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Old 12-04-2010, 07:19 PM
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Personally I do not believe Jealousy exists. Jealousy is only Fear and Ignorance competing for space in your brain.
Fear:
What will I do if he/she leaves me?
It will hurt so bad if I lose him/her.
I don't want to lose everything we have worked for so long.
I don't want my trust to be broken.
ad infinitum

Ignorance:
Does he/she love still love?
Does he/she love her/him more tham me?
What will happen to our children?
Does he/she still trust me?
ad infinitum

Simple, honest Communication is the only way to deal with Fear and Ignorance in a relationship. Tell each other your fears, ask the hard questions, don't expect easy answers, be prepared for change. Change is always a bit scary but change is also the only constant in this world.
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