I'm new here and new to this also. I'm 41 single without ever desiring a LTR mono relationship with a women, I'm a sub bi guy. Having vast numbers of women in youth, I now must have an emotional connection to my partners. A couple has entered my life, at first I was dazed(we are still working out the details), now I'm in love with myself and life and us!
I'm happy for you and your supportive spouse and thankful for this site