Originally Posted by redpepper
Its great you are doing so much work. Trying to remember there is no rush might help. Get used to each step before moving forward, there is lots of time and adjusting will make things a lot more comfortable I think.
and that my dear redpepper is one of the best things i've heard. I guess I do tend to rush things... slowly every so slowly...
I did find your thread on merging... and it did help! you are very very kind and helpful and I truly appreciate it.