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Old 12-02-2010, 07:59 PM
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Nice post nycindie. Some really good points there.

I agree with naivecurious, to an extent. I think if you are uncomfortable with going to do the tattoo then you should back out and rearrange your date time. I don't know if its grounds for throwing in the towel so much as letting her know your boundaries around stuff like that. Communicate.

The thing with tattoos is that they are a pivitol moment for those who are getting them. I remember every detail of getting mine and am reminded of that everytime I look at them. Perhaps she wants to share that with you. Why she doesn't want to share the experience with the man who's name she is getting tattooed I don't know. Seems odd to me, but what do I know
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