Doesn't really sound like something I've heard before. Maybe talk to them about it before it ever comes to that point? That way, they could make it easier for you somehow? I don't see why you can't all stay though? If she comes over for dinner whenever you're over, why can she not stay? Maybe she doesn't like having to leave either?
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