Originally Posted by NeonKaos
Well, it DOES come across as though you want to give up just because a parade got rained on, but I realize we only know what you tell us, not everything there is to know.
It did come across this way to me too. I'm guessing it's more of a frustration vent at not knowing what to do to make it better.
@Selene: You guys have a lot of people in the mix here and I wouldn't take the fact that one or more people need to pull back from the group for a week or even a month as a sign that they want to go back to being mono. Sometimes people just need some space, especially when there are Major events involving emotional upheavals. I'm going to guess the episode with Company has her re-thinking some things, it would me.
I would say, just continue to reach out to them and be supportive, yet give them space if they need it, without taking it personally.