Aw shucks... lol someone had to think that eventually
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ya know you hit it... the key... I really do get why B is scared. I'm not J's type at all... and he's made that clear (when he said he did not find me physically attractive B almost shot across the table to kill him)....
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This raises red flags for me - not sure exactly why but there you go...
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when I look at J I sort of cringe at the thought of it... cause he's so not my type physically but his personality and his brain draw me in....
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Maybe the physical side of things should be taken off the table - if he is not your type, and you are not his type... develop the friendship... leave the possibility of physical relations open but off to the side until/if you are both comfortable??
lol yours is just as messy

just in a different way