It was a point I made last night a few times. To paint a picture:
I'm 27, female, alternative hippie and generally openly passionate about things and like to dabble in anything I can find that I might enjoy.
He's 37, male, outwardly conservative, inwardly...a bit, more structured, more set.
I'm surprised we were attracted to each other and have been together this long, granted it appears to get harder as the years pass because I'm becoming much more comfortable being me, and much more aware of what I need in life.
He's 10 years older, to him that ship has seemingly sailed.
So I keep explaining that the odds are pretty stacked already, couple that with how very different we are...gosh.
So I dunno...I'm frustrated and getting snappy which isn't fair at all to anyone.