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Old 11-30-2010, 05:38 PM
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I see a number of problems here:

K doesn't understand poly and you are pushing for a poly relationship

K & T are FORMER friends. K will see this as a competition (T might also). Basically you have instigated a pissing match where no one can win.

You may have to approach this from the mono standpoint (since K doesn't get poly). T is your friend. If you plan to keep your relationship with K, it can't move beyond that until he can accept being in a poly relationship.

You have a lot of stuff going on - take a step back and slow down. Not everything will be solved at once. Take one step at a time and expect to slip down a few and have to climb back up the same steps again.
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