It isn't just other men they object to. At least, when the objection is universal rather than gender-specific, they aren't treating a woman having sex or intimacy with other women like it matters less or isn't real.
The notion of a one penis policy raises my hackles a bit. It feels sexist and patronizing.
Hinge of a V relationship with my husband (Thumper) and boyfriend (T-Rex). Also, mother of a 6 y/o girl by my husband.
My poly story begins here
. Now with new blogging