Welcome to the forum. You explained it just find...and without sounding mean or rude! I know...many people take being candid and honest as such but ...you're good with us! uh...I Do understand sex without feeling but I don't prefer it. Of course, we know, we can't open our emotions to everyone but the sex is great!*lol* Seriously, though, I have an extremely high libido and I have participated in the swing lifestyle for about 14 years now so...I'm wired differently.
@1uncagedbird- I'm with you. There is no reason why you cannot have both.