I'm not sure how to help toher than to say that I will help in any way I can for the coming weekend before, during and after. He knows I am here as is Redpepper. PN's experience could be invaluable as well.
I think you are doing a great job going over the top with repsecting his requests leading into this weekend though. Redpepper did the same for me at our first BDSM event and my boundaries softened very quickly due to how respectful and patient she was. I'm sure Charlie can understand this as well.
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