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Old 11-28-2010, 06:37 PM
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Originally Posted by NeonKaos View Post
Putting down the iPhone or Blackberry and getting their face out of WoW helps TREMENDOUSLY with "communication" for someone with "ADD".
I agree with this wholeheartedly! Mind you, I've also discovered that for Possibility it's EASIER for him to communicate via the written word than it is face to face. For Breathes it's easier to communicate face to face.

It took me a while to figure out this distinction but once I figured it out things went a lot more smoothly with Possibility

Ask hubby if it would be easier for him to deal with these long conversations via the written word. He might surprise you. You might surprise yourself as well by being able to understand him better, hear MORE of what it is he's wanting to say, it might bring you closer to each other.

Possibility and I live in the same city, see each other weekly, but do most of our deep communication via text or email or IM since that is HIS strength.
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