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Old 11-28-2010, 05:27 PM
ConfusedBunny ConfusedBunny is offline
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I can totally relate to this. The truth is that my lack of experience with sex on top of my mother's prudish teachings had a serious negative impact on my marriage for a lot of years. I have now been married for 19 years, but it has been really rough.
Thanks. I hope things will work out for me, too.

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I agree that couples counceling is the best place to start and sooner rather than later. It sounds like he has a lot of resentment built up and there are things that have not been addressed between the two of you.

Do not add kids to the equation until you can get a better grip on your relationship.
We are definitely waiting to have kids. We are in no rush. I just feel like life is busy/crazy enough as it is. Add kids and more relationships - Yikes! I scared I'll be stuck with all the responsibilities while he is out having fun.

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