Well, I suppose I shall join the crowd.
I'm Vandalin, or just Van if you like. I'm 33 and married to a wonderful man, (as most have heard and affirmed) whom I refer to as Cajun, and we have a beautiful 3.5 year old daughter, she is my Jewel and a 2 month old son who is my little Prince. We are new to poly as we have only been exploring it since June of 2009. I happen to be the one with poly drives. Up until recently I had never thought that I could want a poly relationship myself but after falling in love with another man (only a friend now), I discovered that maybe this is the right path for me. My husband is very GGG with the idea and we will take things at his pace.
I am out looking to date, but currently not looking to rush into anything. I want to explore relationships and try to find out what it is that I really want.
These forums have been a blessing to me and my husband by proxy.
We live in Minneapolis, MN.
Cast of Characters:
Vandalin: Me -- Cajun: My wonderful husband -- my Jewel: Our daughter -- my little Prince: Our son
Elric: My first poly love, now my dear friend and confidant -- Bucky: a dear friend with whom there is mutual feelings and desires for intimacy -- Carl: my new friend and my "first date" who is also new to the poly world with his wife.
Life is about the journey and not the destination,
so what better way to know life
than to wander all the roads and paths set before you.
Last edited by vandalin; 08-22-2010 at 05:46 AM.
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