I don't believe something like this is in the genes, but certainly it could help you understand it a lot better. =] I never had anyone in the family who was a swinger or poly themselves, so I'm definitely sure it's not "in the genes".
Welcome to the site though. I've found it to be quite welcoming to myself already. =]
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