Natural ebb and flow is the best way. My time is rather rigidly scheduled simply because it's hard to fit everything and everyone into it. We have mixed it up a few times, schedule permitting, and that's really nice.
I need time alone with each of my honeys, but I love being with both of them together too. We are out to our friends, so at social gatherings I don't have to worry about hiding my affection.
Hinge of a V relationship with my husband (Thumper) and boyfriend (T-Rex). Also, mother of a 6 y/o girl by my husband.
My poly story begins here
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