It really depends on what you feel comfortable with. With us it tends to eb and flow and we let it. Sometimes I am not feeling like sharing Mono's time and sometimes I would prefer that we all hang out or that I just hang out with PN. They have their preferences too and express them... I suggest just letting it all happen naturally and continue to communicate with each other as you go along; making sure that you keep tabs on what you are feeling and what you need. My big thing is getting enough alone time. I am getting better at asking for that and insisting that it is necessary. It's easy to forget that we are our best primaries.
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