Originally Posted by ray
As some one who is involved with a member of a married couple (we began dating shortly before their wedding) I would advise you to make a decision and not play with the gf's heart. she has feelings. I probably shouldn't get going on this one bc it's a sensitive topic right now. But it can be very hurtful when a relationship has to end because a third party is not comfortable with it.
Everything will be ok in the end. If it's not ok it's not the end.