I'm a switch myself... dominant with hubby and submissive with female partners.. I try to let hubs be dominant now and then but it's hard... I'm wired that way.
New guy is a dom. picked that up from him early... our emails are slow battles to see who is in charge... I'm trying to be more submissive with him but I find it hard even with my words...
I think you are either wired that way or not... you can't be what you are not.