Originally Posted by Breathesgirl
Have you tried to find something else that the two of you can do together to replace swinging? That might help to increase his confidence and show him that you really DO love him and are willing to do whatever it takes to keep the relationship with him as top priority!
i don't understand... can you give me examples.
btw we are not replacing swinging...
again I just never thought we were going to have this relationship.. .and to be honest I'm not sure the other guy will even be game for it...