View Single Post
  #11  
Old 11-23-2010, 09:45 PM
nycindie's Avatar
nycindie nycindie is offline
Moderator
 
Join Date: Nov 2010
Location: The Big Apple
Posts: 9,305
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG View Post
Insecurity is not always the motivation behind a partner's resistance to poly.
I agree. My post was in response to this, which is what stood out for me:
Quote:
Originally Posted by Onysablet View Post
We have been together for five years. i have always been honest with him about my wants but he has always expressed a lot of insecurity . . . i am bending over backwards to make him feel secure
__________________
The world opens up... when you do.

"Oh, oh, can't you see? Love is the drug for me." ~Bryan Ferry
"Love and the self are one . . ." ~Leo Buscaglia "

Click here for a Solo Poly view on hierarchical relationships
Click here to find out why the Polyamorous Misanthrope is feeling disgusted.
Reply With Quote