Originally Posted by nycindie
I believe there isn't anything one can do to make another person feel more secure. .
I am not saying anyone is wrong in this, but here is where a critical misunderstanding in people can create an un-bridgeable divide. Insecurity is not always the motivation behind a partner's resistance to poly. Sometimes it is a fundamental value in how we express and expect love expressed to us....often that is with exclusivity.
Some people were not meant to mix...like oil and water they can temporarily create the image of blending but when things settle they separate.
There is no right or wrong, only difference.