Hey MG, glad to see you back, I've missed you and wonder often how things are going for you guys?
Fortunately that grumpy post was just one little period of our weekend with J. Writing it made me aware of how I was feeling and the caring feedback from Derby set me straight.
It was actually a highly successful weekend and I'm now such an un-struggling mono that I'm even closing down polyamorous people
. The final post on there goes into more detail.
Z got the job he was going for in Brisbane (yes big Australian city :-) ) so we're in the big moving process. J and I even had a conversation about her maybe coming to live with us over there for a 4-6 month stint while she has some work commitments.