Originally Posted by Derbylicious
I think you're in need of being made to feel special. It's so easy just to fall into the regular comfortable pattern with those whom we live with and it can be difficult to remember to show them how much you love and appreciate them. Having the OSO around just makes it all the more obvious. It might be good to have a talk with your husband and give him some ideas about things that make you feel good and loved and special. A few ideas are good because then it's not like you're telling him exactly what to do.
Good point Derby! Sage I am truly hoping things are working out and the grumpiness has subsided. But I agree with Derby...I think you do need to let J and Z know that you are feeling "invaded" a bit and need to feel special...especially during a visit. Appreciated for you being you and being ok with this poly aspect of your life. It is the little things that cause the most resentment. So nip it in the bud, all you can do is make them aware. What they do with it is up to them. But everyone needs to have the conversation.