Mono - the way you have deconstructed the needs in building a relationship - could you go into that with a little more detail?
The footings etc - for example from my side of the equation the only things I can come up with that I NEED from my partner/s would be acceptance and support and honest communication... for the relationship itself..
living together comes with a whole other set of needs (in my mind anyway) (I assume love is a given in any relationship :P)
Is there a process you could share that would help others to deconstruct and layout their own needs for relationships (I just know I have more in there - but can't seem to get them to the surface)?
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Engaged to my sweetheart, WaterWolf